Grace Goes German.

Grace Goes German. My name is Grace. This is going to be all about my preparation for and my adventures in Germany. I was selected as one of the CBYX scholarship winners to spend a school year in Germany. To find out more about the scholarship you can click here. For the most part, this will only be about my experience. Follow me, ask me questions, read my posts, just join in on the adventure!
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Ich habe meinem Blog total vergessen.

Es tut mir leid! Ich wollte irgendwas am Ende vom Jahr schreiben, aber das habe ich nicht gemacht. Was kann ich jetzt sagen? Es ist vorbei. Die beste Jahr meines Lebens ist vorbei. Ich vermisse es alles. Ich vermisse meine Familie, meine Freunde, meinem Haus, die Kühe, von dem ich Milch nahm, das Wetter, die Alpen, die Ruhe. Ich liebe den USA, aber manchmal ich fühle mich nicht zu Hause. Ich will wieder in Deutschland sein. Ich habe viel mehr zu sagen, aber jetzt muss ich Hausaufgaben machen. Bis… irgendwann.

SORRY

I had like 8 questions, but I didn’t get any emails about them, so I never bothered to check my blog! I just signed on and noticed them all, so I started answering. The other 2 are going to take a bit longer to answer, so I’ll put those off until tomorrow :)

"Are you fluent in Deutsch now?"

Love Always, Anonymous

I would say conversationally fluent, but not fluent fluent. I don’t know every single word in the dictionary nor is my grammar that great, but (not to sound conceited) my German is now superb!

"Are u gonna have a big going away party at ur school/house?"

Love Always, Anonymous

I had a going away party yesterday :)
It was lovely, but very sad realizing how limited my time here is… 

"Hey when is your last day of school in Germany? And when do you come back!?!?"

Love Always, Anonymous

My last day in school here is the day before I leave! I will be back in my town on the 14th of July :)

"hey grace! I was wondering what you were doing about senior pictures? lol random I know..:*"

Love Always, Anonymous

If I knew, I’d tell you lol

"Hey Grace! I was wondering how you found out about your host family, like did you found out via email or a letter or whatever you found out through?"

Love Always, Anonymous

I found out via email!

"Hi there- haha this may sound weird but is it true that Germans do not bathe or shower often? Thaaaaaanks :)"

Love Always, Anonymous

Well, it depends what you consider often! Most people here shower every other day. But it’s really different for everybody here! I have friends here who shower twice a day, so no need to listen to the sterotypes :)

PHOTOS PHOTOS PHOTOS

"Any guy news? (: Are there a lot of cute boys in Germany even though Americans tend to think that German guys are gross and wear lederhosen? haha"

Love Always, Anonymous

LOL. Really, I just laughed out loud whilst reading this. 

I find that most German guys are not only nicer and classier than American guys, but they are usually more attractive haha

I mean, there are a decent amount of really bad looking and mean and “gangster” boys here, but for the most part, they’re all pretty cool. They dress very preppy on a typical basis and only wear Lederhosen for Oktoberfest or Karneval :D

And, in my personal opinion, a guy’s attitude can make him either extremely attractive or extremely repulsive. Like I said, most German guys are super nice, so… yeah. 

But I am not interested in any Germans. It wouldn’t even make sense if I was. I’m leaving in two months lol

"Hey grace! I was wondering do Germans have proms like in the US? If so, what grade(s) do they have them in? I am just wondering because it sounds very interesting lol"

Love Always, Anonymous

Well, they have a sort of prom thing called the “Abiball” or “Abschlußball” for the 12th grade (or 13th grade, because some German schools go up to grade 13). It’s MUCH different than the US though.

For my school here, they are transitioning out of the 13-year school program, so right now we have a group of 12th graders and a group of 13th graders graduating in the same year.

Prior to the year of graduation, students throw these parties called “Stufenfesten.” It’s called a “Stufenfest” because, rather than revering to the 11th grade as the 11th grade, they call it the “Kursstufe.”

The grade is split up into two “Kursstufen” at my school. Each one consists of a certain number of students. Now, the students from each “Kursstufe” throw these “Stufenfesten” to raise money for their “Abschlußball” in the 12th (or 13th) grade.

Still following me? Good.

Now, if a “Kursstufe” does not raise a lot of money, they will have a lame “Abschlußball.” If they barely raise any money, they won’t have one at all. That’s why they make these “Stufenfesten” as appealing as possible. They throw them at nightclubs with popular DJs and a mass of alcohol to get the teenagers to actually attend. The entrance fee is usually 3.50€ and the average cost of a drink there is 3€ depending on what somebody is drinking. If each person that entered bought one 3€ drink, the students throwing the party would make a profit of about 3€. These parties are usually packed full with way over 100 people, so you can do the math and see how much money these parties bring in.

Once enough money is raised, the students work with the teachers to plan the “Abschlußball.” From that point on, it’s pretty much like a prom. They don’t have any “prom royalty” though. And they usually have at least one dance that’s rehearsed. As in, the students take dance courses in the 9th grade to learn their dance for the “prom.”

I should mention that this is how my school does it. It could be totally different somewhere else. I wouldn’t be able to tell you! I suggest asking people who are living in other parts of Germany. They may be able to tell you otherwise!

"Pleaaseeee post more picture of Germany and of ur life bitte. :) Need to keep up to date back in the U.S.!"

Love Always, Anonymous

As soon as all of my photos are uploaded to Facebook, I’ll link the albums here. They’ll be public albums so that everybody can see them!

"When are we getting an update Grace!!!!!!!!????"

Love Always, Anonymous

I’m hoping soon? I can’t promise anything now, because I’m super busy in the weeks before I leave!

"I am interested in doing this excange program. Do leve for Germany in August or what is the time frame?"

Love Always, peachestoapplesmissnme

I don’t understand whether or not you have been accepted to the program or are considering doing it for 2013-2014, but either way, the answer to your question would be, it depends. Some organizations leave earlier and some later. I believe the earliest this year was late July and the latest was my organization in early September! It’s 10 months long, so add 10 months to whichever month you depart to see when you go home! Just think of it this way, the earlier you leave here, the earlier in the year you’ll have to leave Germany!

"Hey grace! I was wondering how your home interveiw was and what they asked?"

Love Always, Anonymous

I’m copy & pasting this from a conversation with my friend Chris last night:

Well, they asked about sibling preferences. Like, if you would rather have sisters or brothers and if you’d rather they be younger or older or not living at home or whatever. And where in Germany you’d like to live (somewhere in the north is probably best, or near a city like Cologne or Munich or Hamburg or Berlin or something). I mean, you can say you’re super open-minded about it, but chances are you wouldn’t like the idea of living on a farm in the middle of nowhere like me haha. Other than that, they ask you about certain living situations and whether or not they would be comfortable for you (ie. smokers, pets, vegetarians).

It was a nice interview, really. My interviewer spent a little too much time talking to me about her son who was on an exchange, but she seemed really nice and made the whole situation very relaxed. And she seemed to become even nicer when I brought out a tray of cookies and pastries ahaha

If I could offer any advice, try to not be to specific about everything, otherwise it will be impossible to place you, but try to stress what would make your year not enjoyable. Be as open-minded as possible, because open-mindedness is something you need to have a successful exchange year! Be a warm and welcoming host, dress decently, and you can never go wrong by making coffee/tea and baked goods available! It’s an easy process, takes about two hours, and is nothing to stress about :)